In a thought-provoking message at Holy Ground International Church, Apostle P. Marozva raised concerns about the growing trend of youth straying in relationships, leading to a higher rate of divorces. He stressed that a key reason behind these issues is a failure to understand the true purpose of relationships and marriage from a biblical perspective.
Apostle Marozva began by referencing Genesis 2:24, which states, “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” He explained that marriage is a sacred union ordained by God, meant to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. “Marriage is not just about feelings or temporary attraction,” he said. “It is a covenant that requires understanding, sacrifice, and love based on God’s principles.”
He pointed out that many young people today are rushing into relationships without a proper foundation or understanding of the responsibilities that come with marriage. “We live in a world that glorifies quick and casual relationships,” Apostle Marozva said. “But relationships, especially marriage, require preparation, wisdom, and guidance from God. Ephesians 5:25 tells us, ‘Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.’ This shows that love in marriage should be selfless and sacrificial, not based on selfish desires.”
Apostle Marozva also highlighted the importance of building relationships on the right values. “Before entering into a relationship, young people must first seek God’s will for their lives,” he advised. “Proverbs 3:5-6 says, ‘Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.’ When we put God first, He directs us to the right partner, someone who will help us grow in faith and live according to His plan.”
He emphasized that one of the reasons many relationships fail is because couples are not rooted in biblical teachings. “The Bible gives us clear guidelines for marriage,” he said. “Colossians 3:18-19 says, ‘Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.’ This doesn’t mean domination, but mutual respect and love. When both partners understand their roles and follow God’s word, they can build a strong and lasting marriage.”
Apostle Marozva also addressed the issue of rushing into relationships and the consequences that come with it. “Many young people are entering relationships without taking the time to understand themselves or their partners,” he said. “1 Corinthians 13:4-7 reminds us that ‘Love is patient, love is kind… it does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.’ If we are to build successful marriages, we must practice patience and learn to truly love one another as God loves us.”
He urged the youth to take relationships seriously and to approach them with prayer and wisdom. “Don’t rush into relationships just because everyone else is,” he said. “Seek God’s guidance and ensure that your relationship aligns with His purpose for your life. Marriage is not just a social contract, but a spiritual one, and it requires commitment, understanding, and a willingness to work through challenges together.”
In closing, Apostle Marozva emphasized the importance of keeping God at the center of every relationship. “Ecclesiastes 4:12 says, ‘A cord of three strands is not easily broken.’ When God is the third strand in your relationship, He strengthens it and helps you overcome difficulties. Let us build our relationships on the solid foundation of God’s word, so that we may experience the true joy and fulfillment that comes from a Christ-centered marriage.”
Apostle Marozva’s message was a call to the youth to return to biblical principles in relationships and marriage. His teaching provided practical, scripture-based advice on how to build strong, lasting relationships that honor God and fulfill His purpose for their lives.
